Giant will toss some very sophisticated
definitions at you might just wind up challenging your IQ too. Do not even get
into all that. There might be several complicated things in existence;
understanding and figuring out how easy, doable & smart ways to raise your
emotional quotient should not be one of these headaches. Simply put, EQ is the
capacity to manage all of the shit life throws at you, without losing your calm
and composure. Emotions are what make us human (although there are critters in
some houses who exhibit more truer emotions nowadays compared to owners).
As a Top motivational speakers India --
bulk of those mails & Social Media messages that I receive are bleeding
with EQ issues. My Promise- you employ 50 percent of it & soon people will
begin complementing you for your emotional muscular strength.
I found this beautiful story
about handling one's emotions. I am sure it will resonate with lots of:
Two monks were traveling together
when they reached a river Bank and came across a young lady (how she was
dressed, they supposed she had been a lady of the night). She was tired and
asked them to take her across the river. Among the monks was not up for this,
but the other one gladly obliged and picked her up.
The first monk however, was angry
and aloof throughout. But the second monk didn't prod his rage any further. Not
able to hold his dam of anger, '' he finally said, “Our spiritual path
prohibits us from coming in close contact with women, let alone her kind. And
you carried her to the other side"
This is for all of the emotional
baggage we maintain lugging with us through our lives. If moths could quantify
emotional baggage, Indigo would create enough money to build another Indigo
empire from the extra cash it'll make on bags claims. Most of it is useless
since it's neither the consequence of our actions, nor something we can
control. However, we worry anyhow. Since what else could we do with all the
free time and energy that not worrying would leave us with.
This blog post is about those 6
super smart ways to raise your emotional quotient which will allow you to give
up living like a coolie (porter) to the remainder of your life.
A fast important part before we delve
into the mechanisms of the post: Unlike IQ, EQ is something you may develop.
Emotional intelligence develops over time and with professional and personal
experiences of each individual. It may develop like a crazy weed outgrowth (all
over the area) or in a organized fashion like a fracture healing because of a
physician's timely intervention. We all know how painful it can be to re-build
broken bones which grow incorrectly. Think about your haywire emotions to be
that.
Research suggests that identifying
and anticipating the Stressors, i.e. that the kind of people, situations, and
patterns etc. that have usually delivered an individual on roller coasters
earlier -- is a good way Of knowing how to deal with them. Knowing what
threatens and inhibits our Myself reacting more (to individuals, situations as
well as loved ones ) on the First few days when I'm back home after a very
hectic job journey. After 48 Hours, my feelings stabilize better.
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